Amy Carei

Amy Carei

Family Law Attorney at McKinley Irvin
  • Family Law, Divorce, Domestic Violence
  • Washington
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Biography

Amy Carei is a family law attorney driven by service and shaped by her own journey as the first person in her extended family to attend college and law school. Raised by a single mother, she brings a deep appreciation for both family and financial responsibility to every case.

Amy’s practice is built on genuine collaboration: she serves as the navigator while her clients remain the pilots of their own lives. Known for translating complex legal concepts into plain English, she ensures her clients understand each step of the process and feel empowered to participate in decisions that affect them.

Before entering private practice, Amy supported survivors of domestic violence through a dedicated social services agency. That experience informs her compassionate advocacy and unwavering commitment to helping families build safer, more stable futures.

A fifth-generation Washingtonian, Amy lives in Tacoma with her spouse, three children, and two dogs, Huxley and Ellie. When she’s not practicing law, she enjoys hiking, gardening, playing the violin, remodeling her 1890’s Craftsman home, and restoring vintage Toyota hatchbacks.

Practice Areas
Family Law
Adoption, Child Custody, Child Support, Father's Rights, Guardianship & Conservatorship, Paternity, Prenups & Marital Agreements, Restraining Orders, Same Sex Family Law
Divorce
Collaborative Law, Contested Divorce, Military Divorce, Property Division, Same Sex Divorce, Spousal Support & Alimony, Uncontested Divorce
Domestic Violence
Domestic Violence Restraining Orders, Victims Rights
Fees
  • Credit Cards Accepted
Jurisdictions Admitted to Practice
Washington
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Languages
  • English: Spoken, Written
Professional Experience
Senior Attorney
McKinley Irvin
Current
Education
Seattle University School of Law
J.D.
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Pacific Lutheran University
B.A. (2000) | Sociology
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Awards
Ones to Watch
Best Lawyers
Recognized since 2024
Rising Star
Super Lawyers
Selected to Rising Stars: 2022 - 2024
Professional Associations
Domestic Relations Attorneys of Washington (DRAW)
Member
Current
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Tacoma-Pierce County Bar Foundation
Member
- Current
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Washington State Bar Association  # 48001
Member
- Current
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Speaking Engagements
Silent Petitioners and the RPCs, Institute of Continuing Legal Education
Institute of Continuing Legal Education
Ethics in Parenting Plans for Incarcerated Parents, Institute of Continuing Legal Education
Websites & Blogs
Website
Amy Carei Online Bio
Website
McKinley Irvin - Tacoma
Contact & Map
McKinley Irvin
1011 E Main
Suite 456
Puyallup, WA 98373
US
Telephone: (253) 271-4605
Monday: 8 AM - 5 PM
Tuesday: 8 AM - 5 PM
Wednesday: 8 AM - 5 PM
Thursday: 8 AM - 5 PM
Friday: 8 AM - 5 PM
Saturday: Closed (Today)
Sunday: Closed
McKinley Irvin
1201 Pacific Ave
Suite 2000
Tacoma, WA 98402
US
Telephone: (253) 256-1265
Monday: 8 AM - 5 PM
Tuesday: 8 AM - 5 PM
Wednesday: 8 AM - 5 PM
Thursday: 8 AM - 5 PM
Friday: 8 AM - 5 PM
Saturday: Closed (Today)
Sunday: Closed